My Life with a Dandelion
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An Unwanted Weed or Beloved “Blow-it Flower”?… The dandelion has been despised by gardeners and home owners for years because they seem to grow everywhere and are very resilient. Many people cringe as they see the yellow heads of this weed waving in the springtime breeze on their carefully manicured lawns. On any given Saturday in the south, you can see serious homeowners out in their yards and gardens with a variety of tools and chemicals trying to get rid of these cheerful weeds in hopes of having a perfect lawn and saving their flowerbeds from being overtaken by this willful weed. The poor dandelion gets an unfair assessment in my opinion. This wonderful weed is an important food source to many animals and it’s also useful to humans as it can be used for food and medicine. No part of the dandelion weed is useless—from the root all the way up to the top of the flower. The world viewed my daughter as a useless, unwanted weed. I had my own view of her and it was anything but useless. We live in a society today that places a greater value on people who can successfully contribute to its fast paced needs. People are highly valued if they hold prestigious, powerful jobs, make more money than they need or have a wall of awards or degrees. People are highly valued if they have no special limitations to hold them or others from being a productive citizen. But, anyone who falls outside the lines of what our society defines as “normal” is often looked upon, not as a blessing, but a burden. Just because our society places such a greater value on people without special needs doesn’t mean that God has the same perspective. When God creates a person, He creates that person to accomplish HIS divine purposes. Please keep in mind that God’s purposes may not be the same as our purposes. All life is precious to God. I have always wanted to be a mother for as long as I can remember. Many hours were spent writing out the names of my future children and dreaming of what life would be like as their mother. I hoped for several children as I am an only child and was often very lonely. During those lonely times I made a lot of use of my extraordinary imagination by vividly daydreaming of my adult life. Even as a young child I was definitely a planner. But what I didn’t plan on was having a child with special needs. Nothing could have prepared me for the journey—not even all my years of detailed planning. There are many times in our lives that we plan for things like vacations, weddings and children and the heavenly Father allows changes in our plans to help us become who He created us to be. I am a planner. I like to use calendars that allow you to see the whole month at once—no little daily calendar will do for me. I will make lists in my sleep of events and items to be added to our family calendar. I guess that most of this “planning ahead” comes from the fact that as a child, I could not control a lot of what happened to me. I feel that overcoming all the obstacles of my childhood prepared me for life with my special needs daughter. Having a child with special needs can make you feel isolated, overwhelmed and exhausted.
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By reading about my journey of the heart—trial, tribulations, and overall triumphs—I hope that you are encouraged by the miracles that my family and I witnessed in the life of my special-needs child. When things looked the darkest, it was our heavenly Father that gave us the light to continue to move forward in our “wilderness journey.” While most of these pages have come directly from the pages of my personal journal, I have chosen to omit the names of some people and places to protect the innocent and guilty alike. I’ve also chosen to refer to my daughter in this story by her nickname, LuLu, as that is what she likes to be called. I will honestly admit to you that this book has brought healing to me, although it was difficult and very painful for me to relive some of the events of the past. My hope for you, dear reader, is that you will acquire a better understanding of just how precious life truly is and that no life should be considered less valuable than another. My husband and I have had the privilege of living in the house that belonged to his grandmother. We’ve been able to raise our three children in the same house that holds so many childhood memories for him. It’s located in Millbrook, Alabama—north of the state’s capital, Montgomery. Living in this city has given us the warm feeling of family and a sense of comfort with its Southern charm and friendly faces. With our corner lot, our azalea filled yard, and our house full of memories, I sat down to record every step of my journey with our little “dandelion.” “Why, yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes” (James 4:14).
About the Author
Shea was born in Luverne, Alabama where her mother just happened to be a nurse in the local hospital. Many of her family members live in Luverne and she tries to visit as often as she can. She now makes her home in Millbrook, Alabama with her husband, daughter and two sons. Shea and her family stay quite busy with the local theatre both behind the scenes and on stage. They can be found at the theatre most evenings as there is always something that is happening there that draws their interest as a family. It is a great family hobby. Shea and her family attend WellSpring Community church where they enjoy serving others both inside and outside of the church. Shea is available for local speaking engagements or just to share a word of encouragement. She can be contacted through email at daisyday86400@gmail.com.